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Here is your game plan:
1.) What problem are you trying to solve?
The problem we are going to solve is:
2.) How would solving this problem help them in the short term and the long-term?
Every opportunity I have to add meaning (in-the-moment, allowance time, etc.), I will communicate:
3.) What do you want less of?
We will hold them accountable for unproductive decisions by:
Re-write the items in #3:
When my child makes the decision to [insert event from above], I will hold them accountable by [choose from below].
1.) verbally acknowledge it as wrong, unwanted or unproductive
2.) (and/or) revoke a privilege temporarily
3.) (and/or) issue a ticket that will be due at allowance time
4.) What do you want more of?
We will incentivize good decisions by:
Let's create a plan!Re-write the items in #4:
When my child makes the decision to [insert event from above], I will incentivize this behavior by [choose from below].
1.) verbally acknowledge the effort
2.) (and/or) award a special privilege
3.) (and/or) issue this is an additional earning at allowance time
4.) (and/or) reward them with a special Bonus Bounty
Follow this game plan
for at least 2 months
